Are you living the life you want? Are you settling for less than a full, vibrant existence? Are you living someone else's definition of success? What is your definition of a successful life? Read this article to discover how to avoid false happiness, redefine success your way, and continually reinvent yourself so you can follow your bliss and create true meaning in your life. Bill Cole interviews Ed Brodow, the author of the book Beating the Success Trap, to discover these answers. Brodow tells how anyone can be a winner in life if they live life on their own terms and realize that "life is not a trial run" -- it's the real deal. 607 words.