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Are
You Prepared To Interview? 29 Mental Psych-Up Strategies For Giving
A Great Interview.
People who consistently interview well under pressure have top-notch
minds. They achieve this mental mastery by preparing their brains
to perform. They know and understand the science of mental readiness.
Read how to create a customized pre-interview psych-up system using
29 mental rituals that will catapult you into the zone-that
elusive, yet vital mental state that great interviewers create almost
on command. Learn how you can train your brain for interview greatness.
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Are You Prepared To Interview?
29 Mental Psych-Up Strategies For Giving A Great
Interview
Bill Cole, MS, MA
Founder and CEO
William B. Cole Consultants
Silicon Valley, California
Do you have a special psych-up system for getting
into the proper mindset for being interviewed? Do you know how to
ready your mind? Do you have a trusted formula that helps you get
into the performance zone on a regular basis?
Do you have a system that will keep your mind clear and crisp under
pressure? To handle the stress of tough interviews?
This article will help you develop mental readiness strategies so
you can prepare with confidence for any interviewing situation.
Do you ever wonder why you interview with excellence one day and
can't get out of your own way the next? The answer might lie in
how you prepare. To not prepare is to begin to fail, but psyching
up with purpose can light the fire of greatness inside you.
Mental preparation is comprised of long-term preparation (training)
and short-term preparation (pre-event routines and rituals). Short-term
mental preparation includes psyching up strategies the day before,
the morning of, just before the interview and during the interview.
These four phases are vital to handling performance anxiety, focusing
you on your upcoming tasks, keeping you positive-minded and in providing
energy to drive your performance.
Easy-To-Use Mental Strategies
In previous articles, you have discovered various
phases of the preparation strategies. Let's now learn about short-term
pre-event mental preparation strategies. Here are some approaches
I use when coaching business people, athletes and other speakers
and coaches.
Everyone has a story about how great preparations lead to great
performances. The key is realizing that you have control over how
you prepare. Give yourself the gift of psyching up and watch your
performances soar!
Athletes, sales people, teachers, public speakers, media people
and anyone else who "officially performs" successfully uses pre-performance
routines or rituals. You can use routines to help you relax, focus
and prepare mentally and physically for an upcoming event. A ritual
is a systematic series of steps undertaken prior to the execution
of a task designed to help you sharpen mentally, emotionally and
physically. You may have things you like to do ahead of your event
that make you feel optimistic, confident and energized. This is
your ritual. You want to perform tasks ahead of time that contribute
to your focus and organization. You should have routines you use
to keep you calm, in the proper mood and frame of mind.
Choose Your Custom Ritual Style
There are two times to use your rituals. One
is used for mental preparation just prior to the start of your interview
and the other is used during the interview, but during breaks in
the action, to re-focus or re-energize. In addition, there are two
broad styles of rituals. If you enjoy focusing specifically on the
upcoming interview and organizing details, thinking about it, imagining
yourself performing well and can see yourself completing the interview
successfully, you use an associative style of preparation. If doing
all that makes you nervous, and you'd rather not focus on what is
about to happen, and instead prefer to distract yourself by listening
to music, reading, viewing television or the like, then you use
a dissociative style of preparation. Both styles are valid and appropriate.
The key is to know which one works best for you and to consistently
apply that ritual. Remember that even not thinking about the upcoming
interview is a legitimate style of preparing if you use it consistently
across all your interview performances. This is your customized
way of preparing to perform your best.
Ultimately, it may be best to work with a mental game coach to be
able to purposively focus on the upcoming interview so you can iron
out any performance issues and to prepare as fully as possible using
the associative approach.
Having a ritual does not mean you are obsessed with its completion.
Your ritual exists to serve you, not the other way around. We hear
about professional athletes who have superstitious, elaborate rituals
they must perform to feel ready to play. We hear of golf pros who
may not shave the week of a big event, may eat the same meal at
the same restaurant and may wear the same clothes for each round.
This is extreme, but it does make them feel secure and confident.
Even for professional athletes, the ritual should be easy to perform,
take no longer than a few minutes, always be under your control
and not require any special equipment. This way you can always perform
your ritual.
29 Mental Readiness Success Strategies
Here are 29 practical items you may use as a
menu for designing your own interview pre-performance mental rituals:
- Eat specific meals at specific times.
- Make an overall game plan.
- Make back-up and emergency contingency plans.
- Check all equipment you will use.
- Stretch and exercise to burn off excess nervous energy.
- Visualize your success in the interview.
- Warm-up everything you will use in your interview performance.
- Seek a coach or confidant who will listen to you.
- Wear clothes that make you feel confident.
- Provide some quiet time for yourself.
- Check out the venue where you will interview.
- Use positive self-talk and positive imagery.
- Watch your best performances on video tape, if you have them.
- Be around people who support you and make you feel confident.
- Be around people who are excellent models of mental toughness.
- Know your opening strategy cold so it is automatic.
- Read your mental training journal for evidence of past successes.
- Maintain a consistent, organized schedule so there is no last-minute
rushing.
- Seek support staff to reduce pressure on yourself.
- Stay tuned to any last minute time or changes for your interview.
- Focus primarily on your strengths and leave practicing your
weaknesses to your long-term training.
- You want to build up your confidence just before an interview
performance by reminding yourself of the best parts of your presentation.
- Plan your day so as much as possible you avoid stressful situations
or conflicts that drain your energy and focus.
- Avoid activities that may result in your being tired, depressed
or negative.
- Continue your usual best schedule of rest, eating, relaxing
and exercising.
- Avoid over-training and scheduling any last-minute panicky
practices that drain your confidence.
- Have a game plan so you know what you hope to do once in your
interview.
- Visualize primarily positive outcomes for your interview and
leave out analyzing what can go wrong.
- Spend time around people who will support your efforts and
who validate you.
Rituals are perhaps the most misunderstood and
most under-used mental training tools in the interview tool kit.
If you have experienced hypnosis, relaxation training, autogenics,
meditation, prayer, long retreats, yoga or other mind-body disciplines,
you can attest to the deep focused relaxation and feelings of well-being
that accrue. If you spend time with any top performers you will
observe their rituals and routines that propel them out of ordinary
consciousness into the hyper-state of intense focus that is required
to reach the flow state--the peak performance state.
To reach your potential as an interviewer, you must be able to control
your mind. You do that by controlling your rituals.
Begin building your custom mental rituals for personal power now.
This
article is an excerpt from the Interview Success Guide, an indispensable
tool you need to make your interview campaign a big success. This is a 216-page
blueprint containing over 400 questions you could be asked in an interview,
listed by category. There are over 1200 interview task reminders, questions
and guidelines in checklist form so you leave nothing to chance. This guide
gives you a step-by-step approach to mastering the interview process. Everything
you need to do, from the moment you begin your job hunt to when you accept the
position, is covered. We have thought of everything you could possibly need
to know to conduct a comprehensive, smart job hunt campaign. Learn more about
The Interview Success
Guide.
To learn more about how interview coaching can help you improve your abilities
in media situations, oral test and exam situations, and job interviews visit
Bill Cole, MS, MA, the Mental Game Coach, at:
www.mentalgamecoach.com/Services/InterviewCoaching.html.
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